OVER THE EDGE
Seminar focuses on how students can avoid violent relationships
Bulimia sufferer Aeryon Ashlie before and after. She'll be speaking at the 2019 Wellness show February 2-4.
CPL. MIKE RAIL, CHILLIWACK RCMP—SUBMITTED PHOTO
There's no place for violence in relationships
“Our goal is to stop relationship violence,” says Corporal Samara Bilmer of the Chilliwack RCMP Serious Crime Unit (SCU). “Through education, we bring awareness to the subject with a means to recognize warning signs and prevent this type of violence. We want youth to know that intimate partner violence is never acceptable and there are people who care and can support them in leaving an abusive relationship.”
The lecture offered by Chilliwack RCMP and Lower Mainland Integrated Homicide Investigation Team (IHIT) officers features a documentary by filmmaker Jasleen Kaur telling the story of 19-year-old Maple Batalia who was murdered in 2011 by her ex-boyfriend.
“There were so many red flags, signs that we missed,” says Benisha Aujla, one of Batalia's three best friends who addressed the audience. “Do not remain silent if you suspect a friend or loved one is a victim in an abusive relationship.”
Tell-tale signs a friend or loved one may be the victim of intimate partner violence include:
• Stalking, jealous, obsessive, controlling behaviours
• Partner threatens to harm or kill themselves or others
• Victim is fearful of their partner
• Victim is isolated from family and friends
“If you or someone you know is suffering from a
violent relationship we encourage you to reach out and report it to your local
police agency,” adds Bilmer.
For more information on the recognition and prevention of dating violence visit us on line by clicking onto RCMP Centre for Youth Crime Prevention.
To facilitate the intimate partner violence awareness presentation in your community please contact Corporal Samara Bilmer at 604 792 4611.